One year ago, half way around the world, Addison was placed in my arms. It was a moment that Bob and I had waited for, for a very long time. While we were and are still so happy and proud to be Nathan's parents there was a part of us that still grieved for a typical child. We longed to be parents again and to experience parenthood differently - or more normally. For years we weren't sure if that was going to be a possibility. So many times people have said, "That is great that you saved a child," but in reality Addison saved us. She has filled a void that was in our hearts. She has brought all of us so much happiness, laughter and love. She is so full of life and we take such joy in watching her experience new things. One really important thing that being Nathan's parents has taught us is to appreciate and cherish every little moment and that is what we try to do with Addie. She is an amazing little sister who adores her big brother - she loves to help with his care and is always giving him kisses and hugs. She loves to laugh, dance and just live. It has been a true blessing to see her blossom and thrive this past year.
Adoption is truly a miraculous experience. God brought together a family that was separated by time and distance. Addie was always meant to be our daughter and we were always meant to be her family. There is no question that God knew what he was doing. We traveled with several different families last year and everyone of them have the child that was meant for them. It was a long journey filled with heartache and frustration but this past year has truly shown us that it was all worth it. We are so thankful and so blessed to have Addison in our lives.
I hope you enjoy the video - it is a little long but I couldn't pick between my favorite pictures.
Now if I could only talk Bob into signing the paperwork for our next child.......
Oh Adreanna. Where did the year go? I LOVED your post and video! You have a beautiful family and story. I read your post to Ira and it just takes us right back there! I really hope we can meet up some day! Tell your mom I said hi!
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Betsy
Happy Gotcha day to you!! Yes, adoption is such an amazing miracle. I am so happy that Addison has brought so much joy to your lives. I can see what a sweet sister she is to her brother. It was all meant to be and she is right where she belongs!
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Michelle
Happy Gotcha Day!!! I loved your video. It is so neat to see her change from month to month. You have some really cute pics. So glad we got to meet you guys one year ago today in the Civil Affairs Office. I have so enjoyed following your family.
ReplyDeleteHappy Gotcha Day! Isn't it amazing that a year has passed? Addison is a beautiful little girl and I know exactly what you mean by she saving you and not the other way around. Congrats to you and your beautiful family!
ReplyDeleteRachel
I love this post! What a wonderful tribute to a beautiful little girl. :-)
ReplyDeleteIt has been an amazeing year. Our little girls have grown so much in that time. I look back at our time in China as a defineing moment in my life. I miss you and your family because they are one of the reasons that our time in China was so special.
ReplyDeleteAdreanna -
ReplyDeleteSorry I missed your Gotcha by a couple days...life is too busy around here! Congrats...Meggie and I love following your blog and watching Addison blossom in her Forever Family!
That was an awesome post...now, Bob, sign those papers!!!!
Teresa =)
Happy Gotcha day, and DO IT!! We adopted twice from China and have our special girl (Maia trisomy 11;22 - AKA Emanuel Syndrome) We adopted a son 8 months ago from China's WCP as well as our daughter 3 years earlier. It's INSANE around my house, but it's soooo worth it!!
ReplyDeleteYour post made me cry. You expressed so much that I lack the words to say.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you can be my ghost writer for my blog.
Congrats on this big milestone. I have loved watching Addie grow and change this past year. Time is going by so fast i wish i could slow it all down.
Trish