Sorry it has taken so long for an update!! Nathan finished up his summer school the very end of July. He made it all but 2 days - a great accomplishment for him. Addison is doing well - her speech continues to improve. She is definitely testing the boundaries, but overall she is a good girl.
We took an unexpected trip to Oklahoma the first week of August to attend Brent's funeral (see post below). We were going to send Bob out by himself, but it cost more for one full price ticket than it did for all of us to drive out. Plus it gave the whole family a chance to see family and reunite with old friends. The ride out and back was VERY VERY VERY LOOOOOOOOONG - but the kids did pretty good. It is always nice to be able to see what different states look like.
It was great seeing Lori, Gavin, Landon and Brian. They were so great watching the kids for us when we were at the funeral. They both had a great time. Addison especially liked meeting Elena. Elena brought over dress up clothes and lots of dolls and was kind enough to share with Addison.
When Bob was at OU in ROTC there were 8 guys who were really tight. One of them being Brent. When they all heard the news that Brent had died, they were devastated and said that they weren't going to let anything prevent them from attending the funeral. The families came from all over the country...the first time the gang was all together in 14 years. They were older, grayer and their families had grown. It was amazing that time did not diminish their bond. It was bittersweet for them to be together - especially since one of the gang, Brent, was only there in spirit.
I had never attended a military funeral before (I hope it is years before I do again), it was one of the most moving experiences of my life. Of course it was incredibly sad to be burying a friend and father, but it was so moving to see the support of the community, family, friends and military. A group of Harley Riders volunteered to escort Brent from the airport to the funeral home and then again escorted Brent the day of the funeral. They also stood guard outside of the funeral home with US Flags through out the service.
As we were waiting to go into the service a group of older gentlemen approached the Funeral Director and told him "We are from the local American Legion Chapter and would like to show our support." All along the route from the funeral home to the graveside service people were pulled over standing outside their cars with their hands on their hearts. It made me incredibly proud to be an American and so thankful for all the military around the world who are serving our Country.

What a great post and wonderful pictures. So glad you were able to meet up with family and friends during such a hard time. I have not been to a military funeral either but have seen pictures/videos. It never fails that I tear up. Same thing happened with your montage. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThank you to Bob for serving our country. Thank you to YOU for being a military wife. It is not an easy job.
Dave has just "un-retired" from the Army and is returning to the GA National Guard (part time for now). He will likely deploy in the next year for 12-18 months. Life will get pretty interesting then. :-)
One of the most touching and moving things I have ever read. I have read it several times and sob each time I do. Jefty
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ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome tribute to a man who gave his life for his country. I think it is so cool that all those guys have maintained contact!
On a lighter note, your little "Tinkerbell" was so cute!! Glad Nathan is staying healthy!!
Teresa =)